Can You Change The Ways Of A Womanizer??
I have this...dilemma. I've sort of been seeing this guy, and when we hang out we hook up and what not. It's great don't get me wrong, but I'm not the ONLY one he hooks up with. He and I have a very casual relationship. I'M SIXTEEN YEARS OLD AND I HAVE A CASUAL RELATIONSHIP? That realization came to me awhile ago. So then I texted him one day and said that if he wasn't intending on being more than just fuck buddies then we couldn't do anything else , that I was done. After that I still got a few texts from him saying that he really wanted me but it was still the same song dance. I continued to turn him down. But lately, I've been wanting him badly. And I gave in yesterday and saw him. With us it's not so romantic, but it's mostly because he has trouble trusting. His last two girlfriends were the worst, they cheated and lied to him. Making him how he is. He has a bad reputation for being a man whore so to speak. I've known this since I met him in eighth grade. Bad, bad, BAD. But I really think he just needs to find someone who can see him for everything he is and could be. I want to think that maybe that person could be me, you know? But reality keeps saying no. So how does one go about that? Could I change him? I want to think I can. I have to try, I want to be more than what we are. But soon if that's not the case then I'm gonna just call him quits...FOR GOOD. (Hopefully)